5 Weight Loss Obstacles Busy Moms Face
I’ve had the pleasure of personally working with thousands of busy moms over the course of my 20-year fitness career.
Mother’s are without a doubt the most selfless clients I have ever worked with, almost to a fault. Honestly, I wish they would just be a little more selfish sometimes and give their personal, physical and mental health a bit more of a priority.
Many good mothers miss the boat when it comes to their fitness. In general, they tend to think that it’s okay to put all of their personal ambitions aside for the good of their friends and family. But in reality, moms are not as effective as they could be when deviating from a healthy lifestyle.
After all, a mom who doesn’t workout and doesn’t eat the right foods at the right times will not be running on all cylinders.
Here’s the number one question I ask busy mom’s who are overweight, stressed out and tired who just can’t find the time to workout:
Do you want your children to grow up and be just like you?
That usually hits a nerve, and that’s my point. Parents, especially moms, are the biggest example for their children. If you don’t take care of yourself you’re not taking care of your kids.
In retrospect, I have identified the 5 anchors that tend to hold most moms back from getting the better body they so desperately are seeking. Here they are, in no particular order:
Many busy moms are simply on a roller coaster ride from dawn until dusk, dealing with the stresses of parenting and/or challenging careers. Mornings can be especially difficult since there is often the need to feverishly multi-task to get the kids fed and off to school. Not to mention the fact that many busy moms today have to deal with their own demanding, high-stress jobs.
So missing breakfast becomes a reality, often leading to a host of other missed meals and snacks throughout the day. This leads to cataclysmal series of events that deprive your physique of lean, toned body mass while simultaneously priming your body to overeat junk food later in the day and store ugly, unwanted fat. Furthermore, this starvation protocol creates low levels of blood sugar. This zaps your energy and leaves you feeling foggy, irritated, and lethargic all day long.
Look, there’s always room for breakfast, you just need to make the time! Better yet, plan and prepare a breakfast high in lean protein and fiber in advance the night before to best ensure you stay the course.
One solution that’s worked really well for my clients is a meal replacement shake like PROGRADE LEAN. It’s tasty and contains a whopping 35 grams of protein and 8 grams of fiber. What’s the best part about it? It leaves NO room for excuses! All you need to do is put 2 scoops in almond milk, mix, and enjoy. By the way, I personally love the coffee flavor mixed with a handful of spinach, some avocado, almond butter and almond milk.
This one is simple, yet oh so powerful. Think about it. Moms never miss an appointment for their kids. Why? Well, yes, it’s because they love them, but more importantly, it’s because they love their kids enough to religiously schedule their appointments!
If you are a busy Mom who is serious about your fitness, then you absolutely need to take the same approach with your workouts.
In addition, you need to be sure that you schedule in your daily workouts when you are most likely to do them rather than when you prefer to do them. For example, you may prefer to workout in the evening, but with afterschool activities, dinner and homework that just may not be realistic. Getting your workout done first thing in the morning may be the best option…
In my experience, most busy Moms work best when doing their workouts either first thing in the morning while the kids are still sleeping, or right after they drop their kids off from school. It seems that too many unexpected obstacles come in the way of an afternoon or evening workout for the typical mother. But, regardless of when the best time may be, just schedule it in and stick to it like it’s a family commitment!
I’ve heard it a million times,
“My kids are very picky about what they’ll eat, and I just don’t have the time to cook two different dinners.”
Are you serious lady! Did you hear what you just said?
Mom’s, I know you’re super-busy and sometimes it’s just easier to give the kids what they want, but what are you teaching your kids about nutrition? And, who’s in charge here anyway?
By the way, how did your kids discover “what they want?” Most likely by you buying quick-fix foods to give them in the first place.
Yeah, but it’s quick and easy and it keeps her quiet…
Don’t get me wrong; I can see the struggle. I have the utmost respect for moms. I know I couldn’t do it.
However, I do remember things were different when we grew up – You ate what was served or you didn’t eat, remember?
So, my advice is to learn to cook healthy alternatives and teach your children what real food is. Also, you’ll find even more success with your kids if you get them involved with the cooking; make cooking a fun activity you do together. By the way, you can get tons of recipes HERE.
Children emulate their parents. If they see you eating healthy foods they’ll want to eat them as well. And remember, you’re the one paying for the groceries! ;-b
This can be an entire article all by itself. In fact, you can read one HERE.
Cardio training burns some calories and is good for your health (to a point), but it simply doesn’t increase your metabolism or tighten your body like weight training and high-intensity interval training (HIIT) do.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I love to see moms being active. It’s great to get outside and move, especially with your kids! However, you need to get in the gym (home gym is fine) and move some weights.
It doesn’t take much though. 2-3 great workouts per week will often be enough to help you lose the baby fat and get your pre-baby body back.
Nobody wants to hear that a glass or two of wine at night is going to stop your fitness goals in its tracks. But the reality of the matter is that alcohol has the double-edged sword of both paralyzing the fat-burning process while simultaneously creating fat within the body. Plus alcohol tends to lower inhibitions leading to the consumption of other junk food. Not good!
So I say, “zip it” to all of those folks who say: “consuming several glasses of wine a day is healthy because it has anti-oxidants and that keeps you from getting sick.”
Fruit and veggies have more anti-oxidants and tons of other health benefits, so we just need to cut the BS that wine is an integral part of a healthy diet.
Now, I want to be sensitive to those busy, hard-working moms who have a glass of wine at the end of the day to unwind and take some of the load off of their shoulders because I hear you. But I also know there are other healthier ways to de-stress that don’t have such a negative effect on your body composition. Try stretching, foam rolling, taking a bath, reading a book, etc.
So please remember- if you booze, you WON’T lose!
One last thing – any guy who thinks his wife has it easy at home while he’s out busting his ass “on the job” is a moron. Do the research and you’ll see that the value of a stay-at-home mom is a pretty high price tag, and that price skyrockets for the working mom. So, guys, go kiss your wife, say THANK YOU, and tell her you love her. While you’re at it, give your mom a call and tell her the same.